I have been locked in chastity now for 36 days. Out of those 36 days I have been out of chastity for about a total of 1 hour for Mistress to use her cock. That's 864 hours that I have been locked with one hour of freedom. This is a record for me as far as continuous wearing of a device.
It's been 38 days since I have had an orgasm. That's my 4th longest orgasm free period in my life and a bit more than half way to a new record of denial.
This recent experience has reshaped my ideas on chastity devices. Here is a synopsis.
Chasity without a device. I have gone long periods of denial without a device. As I have stated previously, I am pretty reliable when it comes to the honor system. But even 99% reliable is still for 3-4 unauthorized orgasms a year or a 25% failure rate if allowed to orgasm 12 times a year. Without a device, denial without some sort of constant reminder, becomes easy to forget. It's easy to feel asexual instead of hyper sexual. Without a device I am occasionally tempted to touch myself, especially when I am in bed alone after Mistress has already gotten up or when Mistress leaves the house for work. While I do my best to avoid an unauthorized orgasm I sometimes go too far and end up with a ruined orgasm. I know for a fact that I would have edged myself on at least 4 different occasions over the last 36 days if I were not locked up. I would also be highly tempted to masturbate as soon as possible after a long denial period or a ruined orgasm. One benefit of not wearing a device is that my wardrobe choices are unlimited. Sexual spontaneity is another plus for not wearing a device.
Chastity with a device. Now that I have fully submitted to the idea of wearing a device I can be a lot more candid about it. First off, a device makes me hyper sexual. I cannot stop thinking about my situation. From the second I wake up, to using the rest room, to bathing, to dressing, to sitting, to standing, to driving, to shopping, to going out with friends, to staying at home and watching TV, to sleeping, there is barely a minute that goes by that I don't feel sexually submissive. The accommodations I have to make, makes it certain that I cannot forget that I am a chastity slave. I cannot absentmindedly touch myself, therefore any sensation my cock gets, can only be because Mistress allows it. Just yesterday morning, Mistress was out of bed before me. Without thinking, I reached down to give my cock a little squeeze. Instead of the feeling I was expecting, my hand grabbed my device. My brain was confused for a split second as the expected sensation wasn't there. Instead of a physical sexual response, I ended up with a mental submissive/slave response. I groaned in frustration while at the same time being highly satisfied that I was locked up and under Mistress' control.
I can also not discount the mind-fuck aspect of being locked in chastity. Last weekend Mistress and I were out and we ran into a woman that we knew from our circle of friends. We were chatting and she joked and asked us if we wanted a threesome with her. It may not have been a joke, as we strongly believe that she has been in a couple of threesomes with other couples we know. While I might fantasize about being in a threesome, the biggest thrill I got out of it was being propositioned for a threesome while being locked in chastity. If she only knew.
Another mind-fuck aspect is being locked when Mistress and I are not getting along. It's hard to have the upper hand in an argument when she holds the hey to your cock.
I cannot be trusted on the honor system if total control is what Mistress wants. While I strive for denial and can achieve it, I don't have enough self control. While edging on my own and having an accident can likely be forgiven, my biggest chastity crime cannot. When I am granted an orgasm after long denial periods, Mistress feels generous and will let me stay unlocked for a period of time. Overnight or even a few days. This is actually the most dangerous time to let me out. After a long denial period and especially after a ruined orgasm I am at my most disobedient. I will sometime purposely give myself a quick, full, satisfying orgasm. Being locked up immediately after an orgasm does 2 things. It keeps me from cheating and it gets me ramped back up much faster.
For those Mistresses that want to completely own their slave, I am of the opinion that a device is necessary. Even if your slave is 100% honest and chaste, a device makes being chaste a 110% situation. You can always unlock your slave every day for teasing or for pleasing, and lock him right back up.
Here's a question for those reading this post. How do you feel about chastity devices and what other aspects of being chaste can you expand on?
It's been 38 days since I have had an orgasm. That's my 4th longest orgasm free period in my life and a bit more than half way to a new record of denial.
This recent experience has reshaped my ideas on chastity devices. Here is a synopsis.
Chasity without a device. I have gone long periods of denial without a device. As I have stated previously, I am pretty reliable when it comes to the honor system. But even 99% reliable is still for 3-4 unauthorized orgasms a year or a 25% failure rate if allowed to orgasm 12 times a year. Without a device, denial without some sort of constant reminder, becomes easy to forget. It's easy to feel asexual instead of hyper sexual. Without a device I am occasionally tempted to touch myself, especially when I am in bed alone after Mistress has already gotten up or when Mistress leaves the house for work. While I do my best to avoid an unauthorized orgasm I sometimes go too far and end up with a ruined orgasm. I know for a fact that I would have edged myself on at least 4 different occasions over the last 36 days if I were not locked up. I would also be highly tempted to masturbate as soon as possible after a long denial period or a ruined orgasm. One benefit of not wearing a device is that my wardrobe choices are unlimited. Sexual spontaneity is another plus for not wearing a device.
Chastity with a device. Now that I have fully submitted to the idea of wearing a device I can be a lot more candid about it. First off, a device makes me hyper sexual. I cannot stop thinking about my situation. From the second I wake up, to using the rest room, to bathing, to dressing, to sitting, to standing, to driving, to shopping, to going out with friends, to staying at home and watching TV, to sleeping, there is barely a minute that goes by that I don't feel sexually submissive. The accommodations I have to make, makes it certain that I cannot forget that I am a chastity slave. I cannot absentmindedly touch myself, therefore any sensation my cock gets, can only be because Mistress allows it. Just yesterday morning, Mistress was out of bed before me. Without thinking, I reached down to give my cock a little squeeze. Instead of the feeling I was expecting, my hand grabbed my device. My brain was confused for a split second as the expected sensation wasn't there. Instead of a physical sexual response, I ended up with a mental submissive/slave response. I groaned in frustration while at the same time being highly satisfied that I was locked up and under Mistress' control.
I can also not discount the mind-fuck aspect of being locked in chastity. Last weekend Mistress and I were out and we ran into a woman that we knew from our circle of friends. We were chatting and she joked and asked us if we wanted a threesome with her. It may not have been a joke, as we strongly believe that she has been in a couple of threesomes with other couples we know. While I might fantasize about being in a threesome, the biggest thrill I got out of it was being propositioned for a threesome while being locked in chastity. If she only knew.
Another mind-fuck aspect is being locked when Mistress and I are not getting along. It's hard to have the upper hand in an argument when she holds the hey to your cock.
I cannot be trusted on the honor system if total control is what Mistress wants. While I strive for denial and can achieve it, I don't have enough self control. While edging on my own and having an accident can likely be forgiven, my biggest chastity crime cannot. When I am granted an orgasm after long denial periods, Mistress feels generous and will let me stay unlocked for a period of time. Overnight or even a few days. This is actually the most dangerous time to let me out. After a long denial period and especially after a ruined orgasm I am at my most disobedient. I will sometime purposely give myself a quick, full, satisfying orgasm. Being locked up immediately after an orgasm does 2 things. It keeps me from cheating and it gets me ramped back up much faster.
For those Mistresses that want to completely own their slave, I am of the opinion that a device is necessary. Even if your slave is 100% honest and chaste, a device makes being chaste a 110% situation. You can always unlock your slave every day for teasing or for pleasing, and lock him right back up.
Here's a question for those reading this post. How do you feel about chastity devices and what other aspects of being chaste can you expand on?
