Things are starting to change. After lots of discussion, I set up the cage yesterday in our basement. It's a collapsible dog kennel and I used zip ties on it to make sure it's inescapable. It's big enough to move around in (if not restrained) but not big enough to ever get comfortable. There is a large padlock on the door and an opening to pass items through without opening the cage.
While I am not looking forward to spending any more than 5 minutes in the cage, I have to admit I am turned on. Not by being locked in the cage, but by the shift in Mistress's attitude. She is already using it as a threat when there is something I do that she doesn't like. She is using it to change my behavior, and I have to admit it's powerful. My attitude changes quickly when it's brought up. I haven't spent one minute in the cage and it's already working.
|Not me, yet.|
As a result of this changing power dynamic I woke up terribly horny. While some men might shudder at the thought of losing control, I am excited about it. That's not to say there won't be some fits and starts, but now we have the tools to handle them. I am in heaven.
Finally, I may regret sharing these posts, but here are a couple cage ideas I read over the last month or so. My horny mind is getting the better of me.
Cage story #1 https://dominajen.com/2016/01/13/birthday-figging/
Cage story #2 http://wedlocked-femdom.com/2014/03/05/cage-time/
Cage story #3 http://wedlocked-femdom.com/2014/08/23/bondage-box/