Shocking Dog Collar
Wednesday, August 28, 2013
Today's Edge - Edging
Today's edge had me thinking of being edged and edged without stopping. I also ran into one pic of a guy gettting shocked by a dog collar. His and her reactions are hot.
Shocking Dog Collar
Shocking Dog Collar
Monday, August 26, 2013
Today's Edge - Repeats
Today's edge had me thinking about a couple old articles I read some time ago. I'm fairly certain I have shared them with MBB before. These have a huge effect on my mind.
From the book "Female Domination":
Occasionally my husband will require correction. Lately we have been using a technique called Riding the Horse and I learned about it on the Internet. The horse is basically a bench with a beam. The idea is that he is made to stand with his male sexual organs resting on a pointed, but not actually sharp, wooden board as he straddles the beam. The board is just a little too high, so that having both feet flat on the floor is just too painful. His hands are usually handcuffed behind him and attached to the ceiling by rope, forcing his body to lean slightly forward, which exposes primarily the perineum and his organs to the pointed beam. Time becomes the big enemy, since eventually his leg muscles tire and he must adjust positions to relieve the stress. But that just causes new stress and pressure, so there needs to be another shift, and so on. It creates a downward spiral where shifting becomes more and more frequent. All the while his organs are being raked across the pointed beam.
When he gets to the point where he is shifting continuously, he is now properly Riding the Horse. It usually requires just under an hour for him to get to that point and during that build up time we have some very productive discussions. Once he is fully Riding, it becomes impossible to have a coherent conversation since his mind is pretty much occupied. Sometimes I have him wear high heels, which both increases his discomfort, and makes a really great sound. The time he is made to ride depends upon the infraction being corrected. The pain level is obviously intense which is, of course, the point. A session on the Horse makes him very penitent.
By the way, I recently began introducing him to the idea of cuckolding. He put up a bit of fuss (for him) at first, but a session on the Horse can be very persuasive. The great thing about the Horse is that it requires hardly any effort from me. Time and weight, physics if you will, do all the work. In fact, the only effort required from me is to make it stop, and I have all the time it takes. We also use other punishments, but the Horse is fast becoming my preferred correction instrument.
How to make the Horse:
The horse is SUCH a wonderful addition for any female dominant household! In its simplest form, the "horse" is basically a sturdy saw horse with a pointed cross beam. Please share the photos with whomever you wish.
As for where ours came from, we adapted it from an existing saw horse -- which is useful for so many household projects. Our saw horse is very sturdy -- not one of those collapsible kind that some people have. All we added to this were uprights at either end, made from 1"x4" wood screwed deeply (at least 1.5" screws) into the horse. The cross beam was cut from a 1"x6" (I think) piece of wood using an angled blade on the table saw. It is a couple of feet long. The angle itself is about 30 degrees and is sanded just enough to remove splinters, but it is still rough. The cross beam is attached to the added upright pieces also with long screws.
The height is by trial and error. It must be high enough to ensure that at least one barefooted heel is off the ground at all times. (If you require the man to wear 5" high spikey heels, as I sometimes do, then
both heel points can rest on the ground. The pressure on his feet and calves should be enough to soon get him squirming. I add blocks of wood under the saw horse to make up the additional needed height). I believe that it is best if the "rider's" feet are about shoulder width apart. Our horse has rails near the bottom for this purpose, and to use as a tie point for the ankles. An ankle spreader would work just as well. Fasten his hands behind his back or in the front to his collar, or to a ceiling rope. Either way, you must ensure that he cannot use his hands or arm strength to relieve any of the pressure from the cross beam. It is that pressure, and the eventual need to shift it from one contact point to another, that will do the work.
The "horse" may not seem like it is doing anything at all for the first many minutes. But just give it time. He should be going clipity-clopity within an hour or so. Your experience may vary. A blindfold will also "enhance" his experience.
From Janet W:
Dear Elise, I wanted to share with you and your readers, especially the women, that technology can greatly assist a woman as she dominates her husband. I know some women complain that D&S is too time consuming and that men need too much domination in the bedroom in order for them to be obedient outside the bedroom. That is where technology and the use of gadgets can greatly help.
One example is strap-on play. There are devices available over the internet or at fetish shows known as “Fucking machines”. There are different types from hand held devices to elaborate machines. We have one that runs by motor and it has different stroke settings. Now I like strap-on play and we still do it the old way but sometimes I want to dominate my husband without having to go through the physically demanding workout of strap-on play. I want to use strap-on play as a discipline and the machine can go longer and harder than I can.
I will make my husband get naked on the bed and I will bind him in the desired position, either bent over something or on his back with his ankles fastened to the bed canopy post. I will use my fingers to lubricate him and then I will position the machine so that the dildo is against his anus. I guide the dildo into him and once I am sure it is in the proper position, I turn on the machine and it will fuck him for as long as I want.
If it is a D&S session, I might straddle his face and have him pleasure me or I might utilize other implements like whips and what not while he is being fucked by the machine. But there are many times the machine does all the work as I just observe. I do not leave him unattended but I might talk on the phone while I sit on his face or I might just sit there and read or I might just observe. It is easy on me and I love it when he gets to that place where he begs me to stop the machine. I can adjust the RPM and make it faster and more intense.
I can also control it with a remote control. I love to get him to the edge of orgasm and then turn it off. Then I will wait a minute or two and turn it back on. I can go back and forth like this which really drives him crazy. I can also get him to where he agrees to about anything I want. The fucking machine is great for both rewarding and disciplining a man.
Another device I like to use is a remote control cock ring that transmits electrical shocks. I can discipline my husband while he is doing chores or while he is pleasuring me by shocking his genitals at the touch of a button.
We had a spanking machine. It was a motorized device that swung a paddle and I could set the frequency and the harshness of the paddle. I could paddle him long and hard without ever getting out of my chair. Unfortunately that device broke and we have yet to fix it.
My point is that it is possible to discipline a man and have D&S sessions with a man without exerting much energy. Technology makes that possible and there are more and more devices being invented all the time. A woman can lay back and have her slave orally pleasure her and with a remote control she can spank him, fuck him, shock him, administer an enema (we did this before with a timed device that released the pre-determined amount of water in an enema bag into the enema nozzle that was inserted in his rectum), or whatever the imagination can come up with.
From the book "Female Domination":
Occasionally my husband will require correction. Lately we have been using a technique called Riding the Horse and I learned about it on the Internet. The horse is basically a bench with a beam. The idea is that he is made to stand with his male sexual organs resting on a pointed, but not actually sharp, wooden board as he straddles the beam. The board is just a little too high, so that having both feet flat on the floor is just too painful. His hands are usually handcuffed behind him and attached to the ceiling by rope, forcing his body to lean slightly forward, which exposes primarily the perineum and his organs to the pointed beam. Time becomes the big enemy, since eventually his leg muscles tire and he must adjust positions to relieve the stress. But that just causes new stress and pressure, so there needs to be another shift, and so on. It creates a downward spiral where shifting becomes more and more frequent. All the while his organs are being raked across the pointed beam.
When he gets to the point where he is shifting continuously, he is now properly Riding the Horse. It usually requires just under an hour for him to get to that point and during that build up time we have some very productive discussions. Once he is fully Riding, it becomes impossible to have a coherent conversation since his mind is pretty much occupied. Sometimes I have him wear high heels, which both increases his discomfort, and makes a really great sound. The time he is made to ride depends upon the infraction being corrected. The pain level is obviously intense which is, of course, the point. A session on the Horse makes him very penitent.
By the way, I recently began introducing him to the idea of cuckolding. He put up a bit of fuss (for him) at first, but a session on the Horse can be very persuasive. The great thing about the Horse is that it requires hardly any effort from me. Time and weight, physics if you will, do all the work. In fact, the only effort required from me is to make it stop, and I have all the time it takes. We also use other punishments, but the Horse is fast becoming my preferred correction instrument.
How to make the Horse:
The horse is SUCH a wonderful addition for any female dominant household! In its simplest form, the "horse" is basically a sturdy saw horse with a pointed cross beam. Please share the photos with whomever you wish.
As for where ours came from, we adapted it from an existing saw horse -- which is useful for so many household projects. Our saw horse is very sturdy -- not one of those collapsible kind that some people have. All we added to this were uprights at either end, made from 1"x4" wood screwed deeply (at least 1.5" screws) into the horse. The cross beam was cut from a 1"x6" (I think) piece of wood using an angled blade on the table saw. It is a couple of feet long. The angle itself is about 30 degrees and is sanded just enough to remove splinters, but it is still rough. The cross beam is attached to the added upright pieces also with long screws.
The height is by trial and error. It must be high enough to ensure that at least one barefooted heel is off the ground at all times. (If you require the man to wear 5" high spikey heels, as I sometimes do, then
both heel points can rest on the ground. The pressure on his feet and calves should be enough to soon get him squirming. I add blocks of wood under the saw horse to make up the additional needed height). I believe that it is best if the "rider's" feet are about shoulder width apart. Our horse has rails near the bottom for this purpose, and to use as a tie point for the ankles. An ankle spreader would work just as well. Fasten his hands behind his back or in the front to his collar, or to a ceiling rope. Either way, you must ensure that he cannot use his hands or arm strength to relieve any of the pressure from the cross beam. It is that pressure, and the eventual need to shift it from one contact point to another, that will do the work.
The "horse" may not seem like it is doing anything at all for the first many minutes. But just give it time. He should be going clipity-clopity within an hour or so. Your experience may vary. A blindfold will also "enhance" his experience.
From Janet W:
Dear Elise, I wanted to share with you and your readers, especially the women, that technology can greatly assist a woman as she dominates her husband. I know some women complain that D&S is too time consuming and that men need too much domination in the bedroom in order for them to be obedient outside the bedroom. That is where technology and the use of gadgets can greatly help.
One example is strap-on play. There are devices available over the internet or at fetish shows known as “Fucking machines”. There are different types from hand held devices to elaborate machines. We have one that runs by motor and it has different stroke settings. Now I like strap-on play and we still do it the old way but sometimes I want to dominate my husband without having to go through the physically demanding workout of strap-on play. I want to use strap-on play as a discipline and the machine can go longer and harder than I can.
I will make my husband get naked on the bed and I will bind him in the desired position, either bent over something or on his back with his ankles fastened to the bed canopy post. I will use my fingers to lubricate him and then I will position the machine so that the dildo is against his anus. I guide the dildo into him and once I am sure it is in the proper position, I turn on the machine and it will fuck him for as long as I want.
If it is a D&S session, I might straddle his face and have him pleasure me or I might utilize other implements like whips and what not while he is being fucked by the machine. But there are many times the machine does all the work as I just observe. I do not leave him unattended but I might talk on the phone while I sit on his face or I might just sit there and read or I might just observe. It is easy on me and I love it when he gets to that place where he begs me to stop the machine. I can adjust the RPM and make it faster and more intense.
I can also control it with a remote control. I love to get him to the edge of orgasm and then turn it off. Then I will wait a minute or two and turn it back on. I can go back and forth like this which really drives him crazy. I can also get him to where he agrees to about anything I want. The fucking machine is great for both rewarding and disciplining a man.
Another device I like to use is a remote control cock ring that transmits electrical shocks. I can discipline my husband while he is doing chores or while he is pleasuring me by shocking his genitals at the touch of a button.
We had a spanking machine. It was a motorized device that swung a paddle and I could set the frequency and the harshness of the paddle. I could paddle him long and hard without ever getting out of my chair. Unfortunately that device broke and we have yet to fix it.
My point is that it is possible to discipline a man and have D&S sessions with a man without exerting much energy. Technology makes that possible and there are more and more devices being invented all the time. A woman can lay back and have her slave orally pleasure her and with a remote control she can spank him, fuck him, shock him, administer an enema (we did this before with a timed device that released the pre-determined amount of water in an enema bag into the enema nozzle that was inserted in his rectum), or whatever the imagination can come up with.
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
Today's Edge - Packing
Mistress and I have a dungeon in our house in a spare bedroom in the basement. Oou water company needs to replace our water meter and it's in that bedroom. We are also looking at remodeling and the that room is right below the remodel. Soooo, I am packing up the dungeon until we get through these projects. I started packing the other day and that got my mind racing this morning.
My alter ego Sophia has an entire suitcase of clothes (panties, stockings, etc) as well as a partial closet I need to pack or move. These clothes used to be upstairs, but I moved them when Mistress and I had a disagreement in January. I haven't moved them back yet. I did edge thinking about all of the sexy outfits Sophia has.
I packed a ton of hitting implements, to which I edged about thinking about a hard beating with bruises. I packed the clothespin zipper, hood, blindfolds, gags. etc. to which I also fantasized about.
I packed a stack of magazines that I spent hours and hours mmasturbating to when I was a younger man.
I packed the cock sucking machine as well as the e-stim machine. I edged thinking about being electro tortured by Mistress as well as milked dry.
I have about half the dungeon packed and still need to pack the rest and disassemble the furniture. The rest of the packing should give me more things to think about while I edge.
My alter ego Sophia has an entire suitcase of clothes (panties, stockings, etc) as well as a partial closet I need to pack or move. These clothes used to be upstairs, but I moved them when Mistress and I had a disagreement in January. I haven't moved them back yet. I did edge thinking about all of the sexy outfits Sophia has.
I packed a ton of hitting implements, to which I edged about thinking about a hard beating with bruises. I packed the clothespin zipper, hood, blindfolds, gags. etc. to which I also fantasized about.
I packed a stack of magazines that I spent hours and hours mmasturbating to when I was a younger man.
I packed the cock sucking machine as well as the e-stim machine. I edged thinking about being electro tortured by Mistress as well as milked dry.
I have about half the dungeon packed and still need to pack the rest and disassemble the furniture. The rest of the packing should give me more things to think about while I edge.
Monday, August 19, 2013
Today's Edge - Teasing and Denial... Of Mistress
I had a long awaited orgasm on Saturday. Of course a full orgasm drops off my libido a tad. This morning's edge had me thinking of turning tables on Mistress. Tying her to the bed and blindfolding her. Using my fingers and assorted toys to slowly tease her, get her wet and make her squirm without an orgasm. Of course she would get one, but only after a long slow tease. Here is what I am thinking...
Friday, August 16, 2013
Today's Edge - All Day
Today is a day I am working from home. If I didn't have to meet my boss today, it would have been a perfect day for inescapable bondage.
I frequently fantasize about Mistress leaving me in some form of bondage while she is at work. As a punishment I imagine being locked in our cage, naked in chastity with only my laptop, a bottle to pee in, water, and protein bars.
If I wasn't being punished I imagine being shackled naked all day or dressed in women's clothes and shackled. It's amazing how few pictures you can find online of people in some form of bondage so they can still work. It's even harder finding pics of male slaves this way. Here is some things that I envisioned.
I frequently fantasize about Mistress leaving me in some form of bondage while she is at work. As a punishment I imagine being locked in our cage, naked in chastity with only my laptop, a bottle to pee in, water, and protein bars.
If I wasn't being punished I imagine being shackled naked all day or dressed in women's clothes and shackled. It's amazing how few pictures you can find online of people in some form of bondage so they can still work. It's even harder finding pics of male slaves this way. Here is some things that I envisioned.
Thursday, August 15, 2013
Today's Edge - Painted and Plugged and Vacation
This morning I woke up to an email that instructed me to wear my butt plug a minimum 2 hours today as well as painting my fingernails and toenails with clear polish. The clear polish on my fingernails is always a constant reminder of how desperate I am for Mistress' control over me. I can actually feel the polish as well as the constant visual reminder. While I was putting it on I noticed how subtle it really is. It made me think about going a shade or 2 closer to pink or red. Once I started on that line of thought, I started thinking about yet more naughty thoughts. As I edged, I thought about MBB making me wear polish on our upcoming vacation. People might notice, but we will never see them again. Then that got my mind going, what else could we do on a vacation that would no one would actually notice, but would be a total mind fuck to me. Some of the things that ran through my mind...
Wearing a shorter than normal swimsuit in public (not a speedo).
Tinted nail polish
Clear or darker mascara
Tinted lip balm
Cock Ring at meals, shows or even the pool
butt plug
bra or camisole under suit
stockings under clothes (socks not allowed)
panties
women's perfume or deodorant
chastity
toys
Wearing a shorter than normal swimsuit in public (not a speedo).
Tinted nail polish
Clear or darker mascara
Tinted lip balm
Cock Ring at meals, shows or even the pool
butt plug
bra or camisole under suit
stockings under clothes (socks not allowed)
panties
women's perfume or deodorant
chastity
toys
Wednesday, August 14, 2013
Today's Edge - Cum
Yesterday when I had all of my femme thoughts going through my mind, one thought that stuck with me was a blog that used to be online. In that blog, the Mistress Ms. Marie made her husband dress up in women's clothes and then she made him go pump gas across the street while she watched and took pictures. I looked everyone for that pic, as while the idea horrifies me, in my current state of mind it pushes all the right buttons.
While I was looking for that picture, I found one from another one of her blog posts. In her post she explains how she ties her slave husband down with a ring gag in his mouth. She then makes him cum into a condom and after he comes she uses a syringe to suck the cum out and force it into his mouth. If I remember correctly she makes sure it's all over the inside of his mouth and she leaves the room for some time so that he is fully humiliated and docile. Here is the pic from her blog.
Well last night I came up to bed and found a nighty on the bed for me to wear. MBB joked about "sweet dreams" full well knowing that I would have ramped up dreams and unfortunately this picture from yesterday created ideas that dominated my thoughts last night. It's very frustrating to fantasize about something I know deep down I don't "want". Eating cum isn't a fantasy of mine, being forced to do something that so disgusts me is what is my fantasy.
Below are some ideas I ran across and some pics that really show the fetish in detail.
The first idea follows the condom and cum idea. Here are some pics
Then there is the idea of cum being fed to the submissive during a hand job (no lube I hope)
Or being forced to take cum from my Mistress's body
The last idea's are things to do with cum other than eating it (found while looking for the above).
Leaving slave tied up and cum from both left on slaves face until it dries.
Making slave cum in pants while out and can't clean it up.
Using syringe to fill slaves ass with cum
Having slave fuck Mistress before she goes to work. Mistress returns home with cum filled panites to gag slave with.
Tie slave up in panythose, make him cum in them and let them dry (painful to remove).
Cum gag
Lick cum off dildo.
STUPID LIBIDO
While I was looking for that picture, I found one from another one of her blog posts. In her post she explains how she ties her slave husband down with a ring gag in his mouth. She then makes him cum into a condom and after he comes she uses a syringe to suck the cum out and force it into his mouth. If I remember correctly she makes sure it's all over the inside of his mouth and she leaves the room for some time so that he is fully humiliated and docile. Here is the pic from her blog.
Well last night I came up to bed and found a nighty on the bed for me to wear. MBB joked about "sweet dreams" full well knowing that I would have ramped up dreams and unfortunately this picture from yesterday created ideas that dominated my thoughts last night. It's very frustrating to fantasize about something I know deep down I don't "want". Eating cum isn't a fantasy of mine, being forced to do something that so disgusts me is what is my fantasy.
Below are some ideas I ran across and some pics that really show the fetish in detail.
The first idea follows the condom and cum idea. Here are some pics
Then there is the idea of cum being fed to the submissive during a hand job (no lube I hope)
Or being forced to take cum from my Mistress's body
The last idea's are things to do with cum other than eating it (found while looking for the above).
Leaving slave tied up and cum from both left on slaves face until it dries.
Making slave cum in pants while out and can't clean it up.
Using syringe to fill slaves ass with cum
Having slave fuck Mistress before she goes to work. Mistress returns home with cum filled panites to gag slave with.
Tie slave up in panythose, make him cum in them and let them dry (painful to remove).
Cum gag
Lick cum off dildo.
STUPID LIBIDO
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