Today's Edge - Teasing and Denial... Of Mistress

I had a long awaited orgasm on Saturday.  Of course a full orgasm drops off my libido a tad.  This morning's edge had me thinking of turning tables on Mistress.  Tying her to the bed and blindfolding her.  Using my fingers and assorted toys to slowly tease her, get her wet and make her squirm without an orgasm.  Of course she would get one, but only after a long slow tease.  Here is what I am thinking...

If I were a girl

There is no doubt about it.  75-85% of straight D/s porn out there depicts women as the submissive.  So many of the Tumblr's I see have these amazing bondage scenarios, tortures, outfits, etc where the woman is the submissive, it sometimes makes me wish I were a girl.  Even gay porn has some really great scenes, but I am not gay or bi, so I am always imagining the Dom is a Domme.

Search for porn where the guy is a submissive is a challenge unless it's chastity or cuckolding.  Google or Bing something like "predicament bondage" or "outdoor bondage" and it's less than 20% of male subs.

That got me to thinking.  If I were a girl, with the same brain I have now, what would I want?  Since MBB is a little bi, I would still want her as my mistress.  And since I would have the same brain as far as kink is considered, I would be lesbian and not bi.  If I were a girl, Mistress would make me...

Wear heels all the time

Make me dress slutty when punishing me

Corset punishment


Force multiple orgasms from me until I was crying



Make me go without panties in public

Make me play with myself while in the car


She would use toys on me and make me clean them off with my mouth


She would tie me up in impossibly tight positions


She would use the fucking machine on me non-stop

  
She would make me sock cock until I choked


Torture me with another girl


Use my mouth

Gush all over my face


What I realized on this post was 2 things.
1.  These are all things I wuld like to do if I was dominating a girl.
2. Most of thhese things I don't have to be a girl.  Most could be done to a boy, it;s just that there is little imagery that supports this.

2 days worth

Mistress and I recently got back from vacation so I am back to edging.

Yesterday's edge had me imagining dominating Mistress and forcing her to cum over and over and over.  I would use my cock for the first few orgasms and then switch to the heavy machinery.

This is how I would like to do it.

Today's edge had me thinking about difficult bondage positions.  Looks hot, but would totally suck.  I would be pissed of during and then would likely edge myself to it for days.

Switcharoo

Today's edging exercise had me thinking about what I would do if my Mistress liked to switch or decided she was actually submissive.  Things I fantasized about.

Deciding on what she would wear on some days to work (stockings and heels).
Make her wear a corset one day to work.
Short skirts on weekends.
Tying her to the bed and alternating between teasing and several forced orgasms.
Have sex with her on the website where people can watch.
Make her masturbate in front of others from her PC.
Cane her until she safe-worded.  She is very, very stubborn so that could produce some nice bruising.
Predicament Bondage.
Make her use her mouth to clean off toys she just came on.
Ball Gags, and ring gags.
Remote control toys while we are out at dinner.
Breath play and choking while having sex.
Switching weeks of who is in control.  I could see it escalating week to week, getting even and such.
Take her to see a pro Domme


I think it would be easier for me to initiate sex if I was the on in "control".  As a submissive I don't feel it's my place, and I know that causes us some issues.