Here is the 2nd post I saw that intrigued the heck out of me. The term "ruined orgasm" is always something I have taken to mean as less pleasurable. I have posted in the past about how there is a good reason to use a ruined orgasms to keep the post orgasm let down to a minimum so that the male submissive is aroused sooner. This woman takes the concept to the next level. She uses ruined orgasms to immediately use her man. Here is a good synopsis in her words.
Whereas a normal orgasm causes him to go limp and enter what doctors call the “refractory period” where he is no longer motivated to have sex, a ruined orgasm has the opposite effect – it causes him to stay hard, fully aroused, hyper-energized, and HIGHLY motivated to have sex.
But that’s not all. It also relaxes the urgent release channels, in his brain, temporarily raising his tolerance for sexual pleasure and increasing his stamina. Simply put… a man who’s been ruined once or twice (or more!) in a single night can fuck you harder and longer than you ever thought possible. He can fuck (or get fucked) continuously, relentlessly, at full intensity until you’ve had as many orgasms as you want and you’re both thoroughly exhausted. Go ahead, get sweaty! Let him wreck you! Flip him and ride him to your heart’s content! He will stay rock-hard the entire time, and he won’t cum! Or, if he does cum, it will only be after a long, intense lovemaking session, far beyond his normal, natural physical capacity. It’s fucking AWESOME! Some of the best sex you will ever have!
I have experienced this myself a few times. It usually when I am inside Mistress and I leak a bit. The need to cum is reduced and I can then go forever. It feels good (not as good as a full orgasm) and when I do eventually go over the top it's stronger. It's hard to stop at just the right time. The other time I experience it is when I am edging. Sometimes I stop and 30 seconds later cum oozes out. I lick up my own cum because I haven't had a full orgasm and the horniness is still there. If I went over the edge, I can't imagine freely eating my own cum. I then stop as I don't trust myself to be able to stop like that again. There is a huge benefit being tied up as Mistress can more effectively stop than I can. I would define this as a minimized orgasm in order to have a fuller orgasm. It's the closest a guy can be to multi-orgasmic.
There is much, much more to her technique which can be read here http://healthysexymarriage.tumblr.com/post/145637171302/the-ruined-orgasm