An Interesting Proposal

Last week Mistress and I were out at dinner.  I was explaining to her about the rotisserie predicament self bondage scene I did.  I was explaining the details of how I felt.  She mentioned how creative I was and how she wished she had time to be creative.  Then she asked how I would feel if I designed scenes for her to implement.  I told her I was concerned about being a pushy bottom. She confirmed that wouldn't be an issue as she wouldn't do something she didn't want to do.  She asked me if I would have any issues not being "surprised".  I assured her I wouldn't have an issue and I would have enough variable suggestions so that she could keep me on my toes.

So we came to an agreement.  I would start posting ideas and she would decide which ones to implement and when.  So I have started with 4 as of now.  They can be found on the right hand side of this page under "Scene Ideas".  I will be adding more and also hope to have Mistress make a suggestion for me to elaborate on and devise my own torture.  I'm feeling like a pretty lucky boy right now...

Here is a link to the "Scene" page.  http://missbossybitchsboy.blogspot.com/p/scene-ideas_30.html

The mouse played while the cat was away...

Several months ago Mistress went on a business trip.  That was a perfect time for me to try some self bondage.

Below are some screen shots of what I did to myself and the video is posted, but there was no good way to post it to the blogger.com as it's too small for my taste.

When I go back through these pics and video, I fantasize about Mistress being on the other end of the camera taunting me.  I also imagine her tying me to a solid object so I had to wait for the pain and couldn't speed it up.  That would suck so bad. It would likely be the worst pain I have ever felt, but later I would be so turned on re-living the pain.

Here is the video

Bra Discipline

Since I ran into the post about bra discipline, I can't seem to get my mind off of it.  I edged to it last week and ended up having to eat my pre-cum ( http://missbossybitchsboy.blogspot.com/2015/08/my-first-taste-of-new-rule.html ).

I decided to look into the e-book that was mentioned in the post.  OMG.  Not only is there "brassiere discipline", there is "put him in panties", "lingerie discipline" and "men as maids".  There is also a free e-book to each one.

http://www.brassiered.com/brassiered/imagine.html
http://www.brassiered.com/puthiminpanties/foreword.html
http://www.brassiered.com/maids.html

This also reminds me of a post I read a while ago.  I'm paraphrasing here but the post was essentially "my way of weeding out the true submissives from the phonies is by making them wear a bra.  Most subs will wear panties or a chastity device, but put them in a bra 24/7 and you soon see just how submissive they are.  Once they realize how uncomfortable they are, they want out.  Some will even stay in chastity to avoid a tight bra."

Instead of having Mistress read the book here are some quotes I found intriguing.  The first one is out of order because Mistress mentioned we should go shopping for nighties for me.  This made me think of that "You may choose to brassière him when going out occasionally, perhaps as a punishment, or you may wish to insist that he wears a bra for particular situations, for example, whenever you take him shopping, something that will tame even the most recalcitrant of men!"

• it has a strong deterrent effect 
  A man threatened with having to wear a bra knows that doing so would place him in an impossible situation, unable to explain his intimate attire were it to be discovered, yet requiring a certain amount of effort to prevent such discovery. 
• it encourages a more submissive state of mind 
  Once a man is trapped in the embrace of a brassière, he knows that he finds himself in quite a quandary! He has submitted to his wife and acknowledged that she is in charge of the situation. 
• it provides a constant reminder of its presence 
  It is difficult for a man to forget that he is wearing a brassière, both physically and psychologically. The pull of its elastic, the pressure around his chest and even the feel of its materials are all sensations he is unlikely to have experienced from any of his regular clothing. Moreover, the constant fear of discovery, coupled with the vigilance required to avoid being found out, leads to a sense of being kept on edge, making it impossible to ignore a brassière's presence for any length of time.
• Threaten him with having to wear a bra 
  Even if your husband has yet to wear a bra, merely the threat of having to do so can be very powerful, particularly if he has already shown a strong aversion to the idea. If the thought of having to wear a brassière causes him to freeze with horror, filling him with dread at the prospect of being placed in such an embarrassing predicament, simply suggesting that he do so should be sufficient to stop him in his tracks and return his thoughts to your needs. .If your husband is already brassièred, you can achieve a similar effect by threatening to make his discipline more severe, either by prolonging the time he must spend so attired, or by having him wear a brassière that is even worse. 
• make him wear a bra occasionally as a punishment 
  For your threat to have meaning, you must be prepared to carry it out from time to time, not least to avoid your husband calling your bluff. Fortunately, there is absolutely no reason why you shouldn't make him wear a bra if he misbehaves, either straight away if you are alone together, or later if doing so is not immediately practical. 
• make him wear a bra whilst doing household chores 
  It is best to fix a regular time for your husband to undertake the chores, presenting him with his brassière immediately prior to him starting work. It should be made clear to him that he will remain brassièred until everything has been completed to your satisfaction, with any sign of him having made insufficient effort being dealt with accordingly.
• make him wear a bra around the house 
  Of all the places where you can make your husband wear a bra, by far the easiest is within the privacy of your own home.  Initially, you may wish to choose the occasional evening for him to be brassièred, perhaps presenting him with something suitable to wear when he returns home from work, but in time, such occasions should become more and more frequent until you insist that he wears a brassière whenever he is at home. 
• make him wear a bra when going out 
  Whilst having to wear the most feminine of garments in private is already a most effective means of discipline, thanks to the unique connotations of the brassière, having to do so in public presents your husband with the additional concern that someone might discover what he has been made to wear. You may choose to brassière him when going out occasionally, perhaps as a punishment, or you may wish to insist that he wears a bra for particular situations, for example, whenever you take him shopping, something that will tame even the most recalcitrant of men!
• make him wear a bra to work 
  For many men, the eight or more hours spent at work each day constitutes the longest period of time they spend apart from their wives, and thus proves to be the most beneficial part of the day as far as brassière training is concerned.
• make him wear a bra to sleep 
  Many women with larger breasts find they benefit from wearing a brassière at night as well as during the day. Although your husband is unlikely to require the support that doing so provides, that does not stop you insisting that he wears a bra to bed too. Waking up to find that he is already brassièred from the night before is a very profound experience for a man, reminding him of his position in your relationship right from the very start of the day. 
• make him wear a bra twenty four hours a day, seven days a week 
  Although you might expect such men to grow so used to being brassièred that it no longer has any kind of disciplinary effect, this is far from the case! Regardless of whether a man has been wearing a brassière for one day or for ten years, he will still have the same dilemma as to how he can adjust his bra straps without anyone noticing his embarrassing secret, whereas an uncomfortably tight punishment brassière will remain just as difficult for him to wear, offering just as much discouragement from misbehaving again.

• make him wear a bra that is too tight  The simplest and most effective way to make your husband's bra wearing more uncomfortable is to have him wear a brassière that is too tight. Wearing such a bra will soon become very irritating, causing the man unfortunate enough to be trapped inside to want to endlessly fiddle with it in a vain attempt at obtaining relief. Worn in a public setting, the man in question is in quite a predicament, knowing that any attempt at adjusting his brassière must be done in private so as to avoid the risk of discovery.  Longline bras are ideally suited for use in this way, as are basques, particularly those with additional boning to help mould the figure. The extra length of such foundation garments serves to constrict much more of the upper body, with an effect that is not dissimilar to wearing a modestly laced corset.

How do I make the punishment fit the crime?

• a husband who removes his bra without permission 
• should be locked into a punishment bra, so that he understands he has no choice over when or where he is brassièred.
• a husband who complains too much about his bra 
  should be made to wear an uncomfortably tight bra, to show him how reasonable his regular brassières are.
• a husband who slovenly allows his bra straps to remain slipped 
  should be made to wear a bra whose straps will not stay put, and chastised each and every time they fall.
• a husband who ogles other women's chests 
  should be given breasts that are undeniably feminine, to understand what it is like to have his chest stared at.
• a husband who is caught with pornography 
  should be given huge breasts that are awkward and cumbersome, to teach him that women's bodies are not just for men's pleasure.
• a husband who is too cocky or has an attitude problem 
  should be made to wear a bra that is difficult to hide, keeping him on edge with a constant fear of discovery.
• a husband who does not do his chores or keeps going out 
  should be made to wear a bra that cannot be hidden, to prevent him from leaving the house until you decide he should.
• a husband who has been rude and demeaning towards women 
  should spend some time wearing only feminine lingerie, until he understands his place.

I've clearly fantasized quite a bit about this.  This could be one of those "be careful what you wish for moments".rt.

The Power of Clothing

Last week Mistress and I did some traveling.  When I was packing my suitcase, I was feeling particularly submissive.  Normally when I pack, I pack my male underwear and lounging clothes and I might throw in a pair or 2 of panties and a nighty.  When I do that, I have options.  This time I set myself up so that I had no options.  Not only did I not pack any make underwear, I packed panties that were super feminine, frilly and tighter than my normal panites.  I also packed 2 nighties that had heavy bra padding and one that is the most humiliating one I own.

So all last week I wore panties that I could not take my mind off of.  Every time I went to the bathroom I was reminded of how feminine they were.  A few of the pairs left indentations in my skin because of their design.  I was in subby heaven.  Every morning I woke up super turned on.  One night Mistress and I had a disagreement.  The next day we spoke very little.  That would normally be a day I would switch to my male underwear to prop up my male ego.  Because of how I packed that wasn't an option.  Instead I picked the least feminine pair I could.  Needless to say, my ego was put down fairly quickly.  I woke up early every morning with lots and lots of dirty thoughts.  I kept going back in my mind to my last post about "brassière discipline" which I will write another post about soon.

Mistress didn't have me wear nighties for the first few nights, but she did the last couple nights.  One of those nights I wore a nighty right after an orgasm.  Needless to say I didn't want to wear it, but I did.  Even after the orgasm I was back to a very heightened state of horniness due to the fact I was wearing my sluttiest nighty.  I feel like such a slut when I wear it.  The picture below is close to what I am talking about.

It amazes me the power clothing has over me.  I can't help but be overwhelmed by naughty thoughts when wearing women's clothes and even more so when I am forced coerced into wearing naughty items.  I love it when Mistress has me wear things (even when I hate it).  It goes straight to my brain.

  

My First Taste Of A New Rule.

Mistress has a new rule.  The rule is I can edge, but if any cum comes out I have to lick it up. That happened today.  I was edging to some breath play videos and pictures, but made sure not to get too close to the edge.  Then I saw Strict Julie's Blog had an update.

Here was the quote that set my cock to leaking...  the book has an interesting take on bra discipline. More subtle. Very elegant. Very subtly humiliating. Designed to curb a man's behavior almost willingly. She suggests coaxing a man into a bra, and then tying his sexual release to his willingness to wear his bra, with the goal of eventually having him docile and brassièred 24x7. Punishment then means being locked into a more uncomfortable brassière, or a brassière that's harder to hide when out at work, or having to wear very large DDD breast forms under his brassière around the house or for chores, or even inviting other (trustworthy) women such as best-friends or female relations to be made aware of his brassière training. Lovely material, whether true or just lovely fantasy. And of course, one obvious application of brassière discipline is pointed out in the book as follows.  "a husband who ogles other women's chests should be given breasts that are undeniably feminine, to understand what it is like to have his chest stared at."

That punishment would certainly fit this particular crime!

That was it.  I dribbled.  I stopped reading so as to avoid further leakage, but know I will come back to the post.

The post spoke to me since Mistress and I were fantasizing the other night about her being meaner to me and finding ways to humiliate me publicly, especially on an upcoming trip.  So this one paragraph pushed me further than I planned on going.  Here is me doing what I said I would do...

It doesn't taste so bad when I am all worked up like I am.  Post orgasm cum is a whole other story.  

Here is the entire blog post that got me going.  http://strictjuliespanks.blogspot.com/2015/08/summertime-wandering-eyes-hot-bottom.html

Husband wants to be a Girl for the Night

I use an app that keeps track of a large list of blogs that I'm interested in.  That way I don't have to go to each blog and when there is an update it just shows up in my list of blogs.

There is one blog that I have frequently quoted (Strict Julie Spanks) and today is another one of those days.  While I am a little jealous of the husband of the blog writer, she is probably a little too extreme for me.  Either way, her blog is really good for some exciting stories.  Her most recent on that got my blood (and other parts) going.

 Here are some of the quotes that jumped out at me.

"Morning of I told him his wish would come true that evening. He would be made into a complete girl and treated as such by me."

"It was now time for my little bitch to suck cock."

"She wanted to be a "badly treated" girl for the night? She got her wish."

"I immediately scooped it all up and fed it to her. Every last drop I could get. I told her to hold it in her mouth and not swallow, or else!"

Here is a link to the full, very hot story...  http://strictjuliespanks.blogspot.com/2015/07/husband-wants-to-be-girl-for-night.html